Or something like that ….
The shit I get myself into on Monday nights …. I should seriously consider writing an autobiography …..
Well, as we all know my Venus is very well placed in a snug tight fit in Scorpio …. and we all know I’m no stranger to sexual pleasures. (
And my love of everything provocative) I don’t understand why just as a woman even mentioning the word makes me seem like a harlot? But thankfully its 2K12 and its becomming more and more acceptable. Women, own it.
I mean everyone does it.
How else do you think you got here?
I can say that I appreciate a man who likes a woman who knows what she wants…. Applause to you kind sir
Therefore, being open and unabashed in that topic, its time to share a few things that gets me in a tizzy. Take notes.
1. I’ve never been a fan of multiple sex positions in one tryst. It’s cool that your well versed in your techniques, but when it strays from being something intimate and passion filled to the olympics, I get kind of put off…. Although, I do find these to be a bit enjoyable:
The Sensual Spoon
Why You’ll Love It:
Why You’ll Love It:
The Ride of Your Life
Why You’ll Love It:
Why You’ll Love It:
The Sea Horse
Why You’ll Love It:
Steamy? …. Almost there
“Apparently, dancing for him and throwing herself at him weren’t enough. Apparently, she had to nearly commit murder to arouse him enough to attack her.” – Gena Showalter
10 Kinky Light Sex Moves You Need To Try
1. Blindfold him with his tie and lead him to a spot in the house where you two haven’t gotten it on before.
2. Role-play a naughty scenario where you call him Sir/Profressor/Mr. If you forget and refer to him by his first name, you get a sexy spanking. Or, have your guy refer to you as Ms./Madam/whatever, and the same rule applys to him.
3. Instruct your to guy sit in a chair. Slowly strip off your thong and use it to tie his hands together behind him. Then give him a lap dance, teasing him with your untouchable sexiness.
4. Wear black, over-the-knee boots and nothing else. Push him against the wall, (gently) tug on his hair, and whisper, “You’re going to do whatever I say tonight.”
5. Ask him to pin you to the bed, then playfully resist by attempting to close your legs until you let him win out.
6. Cut a small hole in the crotch of a sexy pair of cotton panties. Once things start heating up, put his hand down there (so he can feel the tear) and tell him to completely rip your underwear off and enter you.
7. Surprise him while he’s watching TV by dropping to your knees and giving him oral sex without saying a word.
8. Offer to masturbate for him, and he gets to direct the action.
9. Go down on him, but tell him that he can’t climax until he has your permission. If he starts to get close, back off and then start again.
10. Use your man’s favorite tie and pin down his arms, get out your favorite toy and strattle him, bringing yourself to orgasm ontop of his body. This allows him to not only feel your arousal, but to mark his favorite clothing with a memory he’ll never forget
“The next time you try to seduce anyone, don’t do it with talk, with words. Women know more about words than men ever will. And they know how little they can ever possibly mean.” – William Faulkner
7 Things To Say During Sex
1. “I can’t wait to feel you inside me.”
2. “Just looking at you is making me wet.”
3.”Hold on, let me memorize every detail of your (insert body part here)”
4. “I’ve been thinking about doing this all day.”
5. “How am I ever going to decide where to lick you first?”
6.”We’re definitely leaving the lights on tonight.”
7. “God you feel amazing, don’t pull out”
^ personal favorite. Is that just not the sexiest? After you’ve spent eachother just lying there with him inside of you…
And in continuance ….
“You want sensitive and understanding, stick with the therapist.You want great,
headbanging sex, get off the fucking phone and come with me.” – Jennifer Cruise
8 Ways to Get Him in the Mood
1. Bubble, bubble, no toil or trouble: Prepare a candlelit, vanilla-scented, bubble bath. According to neurologist Alan Hirsch, of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago, vanilla is the aroma that arouses men most. Add a few more key ingredients to your sensual bath potion, such as you waiting for him in the tub with two glasses of wine, and voila! Let the games begin.
2. See me, feel me, touch me.
Give your guy a sensual massage, and incorporate some items with diverse textures, such as a silk scarf, a feather. or a scratchy wool sweater. Be creative, but be sure to choose things that will feel different on his skin. Light a scented cinnamon candle (cinnamon is a known aphrodisiac for men), and choose a massage oil with aphrodisiac properties, such as lavender or frankincense. And don’t forget the blindfold – for him.
3.Let me whisper in your ear.
In your sexiest voice, leave a message on his voice mail about what it is that draws you to him and why you can’t wait to see him later – the breathier the better.
4. Look into my eyes.
Staring contests are a childhood staple, but this is one kids’ game worth revisiting as adults. Staring directly into the eyes of your lover without breaking your gaze can be a powerful tool for arousal, and it can also enhance intimacy during lovemaking.
5. The gift that keeps on giving.
Buy him a gift certificate from Victoria’s Secret and let him choose what lingerie you will be donning during your next intimate time together. Offer to go with him to model the options, or let him surprise you.
6. Chocolate, chocolate, my kingdom for a chocolate.
While the female love affair with chocolate is well-documented, according to a recent study, men who consumed it also felt less lonely and depressed. Combine this news with chocolate’s known aphrodisiac properties for both sexes and you have a winning combo when it comes to revving up the mood for amore.
7. I want to sing you a love song.
Make a CD of his fave tunes or a compilation of love songs that have some special meaning to the two of you. Leave it on his car seat for him to find in the morning on his way to work, and he’ll think about you all day. These work the same for those risque pictures.
8. The gateway to his heart.
Prepare his favorite brown-bag lunch, with a little something extra tucked inside: A deliciously raunchy note from you, informing him of what you intend to do when you see him
“Her lips touched his brain as they touched his lips, as though they were a vehicle of some vague speech and between them he felt an unknown and timid preasure, darker than the swoon of sin, softer than sound or odor.” – James Joyce
2 Steamy Phone Sex Tips
1. For His Pleasure
“I’m coming.” So simple, so powerful. This sentence is like the sex version of bacon — men freakin’ love it. “Being a great lover is a prime source of pride for guys,” Levkoff says. “Telling him you’re about to orgasm is the ultimate accolade.” It’s proof that he’s successfully satisfying you. What’s more, he’s gotten you so aroused that you’re out of control — this phrase suggests that even if you tried, you couldn’t stop from tumbling over the edge. Announcing your orgasm’s arrival also amps up anticipation for that pivotal moment, thus enhancing enjoyment for both of you. “Plus, since most men are ready to climax before women are, this gives him permission to come,” Kerner says. That’s definitely music to his, um, ears.
2. For Your Pleasure
Women, on the other hand, want something less basic than bacon. What Kerner suggests: “I love it when you [verb] my [body part],” such as “I love it when you rub my thigh/kiss my neck/lick my breasts.” He explains, “Verbalizing the sensation brings your attention to it, which reinforces the pleasure you’re experiencing.” It’s like eating a yummy meal — talking about how delicious it is can make it even tastier. This phrase also helps you stay in the moment, Kerner adds. If your mind starts wandering or you’re stressing about other stuff, expressing what’s happening to you keeps you focused on what you’re feeling that second. Your guy gets off on it too. “It shows him that he’s doing something right,” Levkoff says. And once he knows you dig that move, he’ll probably repeat it. Excellent.
“Is not the most erotic portion of a body where the garment gapes? In perversion (which is the realm of textual pleasure) there are no “erogenous zones” (a foolish expression, besides); it is intermittence, as psychoanalysis has so rightly stated, which is erotic: the intermittence of skin flashing between two articles of clothing (trousers and sweater), between two edges (the open-necked shirt, the glove and the sleeve); it is this flash itself which seduces, or rather: the staging of an appearance-as-disappearance. ” – Ronald Barthes
Top 10: Female Sex Fantasies
10. Domination (her dominating you)
Women love a big strong man who can sweep them off their feet and carry them into the sunset — but you may be surprised to learn that one of the top female sex fantasies is to have that same big strong man begging for sexual release in the bedroom. The entire scenario revolves around you worshipping her body and begging for her attention. Why? She gets to be in control while enjoying total devotion from her man in the process. What more could she want?
9. Domination (you dominating her)
The advent of the metrosexual is most commonly blamed for this top 10 female sex fantasy. It seems that modern, independent women actually prefer real men who aren’t afraid to embrace their testosterone. This woman fantasizes about you pinning her down and thrusting her thighs apart with your knee. She wants to feel your fingers snake through her hair and pull her head back; she wants to feel your teeth on her shoulder; she wants to be owned — if only while in the bedroom (after which, she’ll want a clear return to equality). This win-win female sex fantasy scenario allows her to fully indulge her femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism.
8. Sex with a stranger
Most women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to act out this top 10 female sex fantasy, but you’d better believe that most have thoroughly enjoyed thinking about it. No-strings-attached sex is something many women would love to experience, but most are dissuaded from it thanks to a lofty load of self-produced guilt. Nevertheless, her libido definitely gets fired up at the idea of a gorgeous male approaching her in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to his room for a long, hot night of wild sex. This female sex fantasy appeals to her naughtiest side — the kinky one that rarely sees the light of day.
7. Threesome with another woman
These days, it’s fairly common for straight women to get down with other women now and again, making this top 10 female sex fantasy a not-so-unrealistic possibility. That being said, this threesome fantasy rarely involves you getting playtime with the second hottie, as most girlfriends do not want to see their man touch another woman. In this scenario, you’re meant to play voyeur until your woman is ready for something more hardcore. This allows her to experience the best of both worlds without having to worry about things like jealousy or sharing.
6. Threesome with two men
This top 10 female sex fantasy involves the woman being worshipped and adored by two gorgeous men. These men are typically heterosexual and, therefore, only interested in the woman — which translates into a whole lot of action for her. Her sex fantasy might be as innocent as being penetrated by one man while performing oral sex on the other or it might go further. This female sex fantasy is the ultimate taboo for many women, which makes it all the more fun to imagine.
If you think women don’t enjoy watching other people get it on, you’re completely mistaken. Your woman likes to watch for the same reasons as you do: It’s erotic, exhilarating and slightly taboo. She may fantasize about peeping through the neighbor’s bedroom window, spying on a kinky couple in the park or even catching a full-on orgy from the sidelines. Believe it when we tell you she enjoys “watching” just as much as you do; it allows to her be naughty without getting her hands dirty, so to speak.
4. Force fantasies
As mentioned in our common female fantasies article, force fantasies are massively popular among women. Most psychologists believe this top 10 female sex fantasy allows a woman to have the wild, dirty sex she craves, without having to suffer the guilt that often follows. These female sex fantasies usually involve a gorgeous man carrying her off to his bedroom and quickly getting down to business. She’ll protest as he tears her clothing off and expertly arouses her body, but on the inside, she’ll love every minute of it. (
personal fav. part two.. nothings hotter than being chocked as your climaxing)
She might cringe when you bring up the topic of making homemade porn flicks, but your woman has probably fantasized about doing precisely that at one time or another. Unfortunately, most women are far too body-conscious to experiment with such things, making this a top 10 female sex fantasy, as opposed to a reality. Believe it or not, some women even take this desire to the next level, fantasizing about others watching as you shag her silly in a public place.
2. Private dancer
Most women wouldn’t have the nerve to strip in a public setting, but this top 10 female sex fantasy definitely involves taking it all off. She loves the idea of tantalizing you with a striptease, and she’d love to give you a private lap dance. Why? Your enjoyment tells her you find her attractive, and your erection tells her she has control — a potent combination that women simply can’t get enough of.
1. Lay me out on display
In today’s world of confident women, I was not surprised to learn that many of them fantasize about having an audience whilst engaging in sexual acts with a partner. I guess the idea of knowing that others are getting excited by their “performance” provides them with a feeling of empowerment.
“Imagining that people are watching me while I’m taking my partner’s manhood into my mouth gives me a feeling of satisfaction because it makes me feel sexier.” Perhaps these women feel as though they’re participating in an erotic movie… speaking abstractly, of course.
“Mastering the art of seduction gives one a great power, and like any power, it’s to be wielded with responsibility; a man who wields the art of seduction without a sense of responsibility and restraint is a walking proximity bomb of viral epidemics, needless procreation, heartbroken families, and shattered dreams.” – Stefan Zweig
Sex Is ART
There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don’t need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain.
Sex is full of lies. The body tries to tell the truth. But, it’s usually too battered with rules to be heard, and bound with pretenses so it can hardly move. We cripple ourselves with lies.
Blake said that the body was the soul’s prison unless the five senses are fully developed and open. He considered the senses the ‘windows of the soul.’ When sex involves all the senses intensely, it can be like a mystical experence.
I often think that a slightly exposed shoulder emerging from a long satin nightgown packs more sex than two naked bodies in bed.
Sex without love is a meaningless experience
Neither sex, without some fertilization of the complimentary characters of the other, is capable of the highest reaches of human endeavor.
I believe in using words, not fists. I believe in my outrage knowing people are living in boxes on the street. I believe you should always say what you feel, no matter the consequences. I believe in honesty. I believe in a good time. I believe in good food. I believe in the union of two souls. I believe in passion and intensity in personal relationships. I believe its hideous for a woman to be defiled from the pleasures of sexual encounters. I believe that pictures say more than literature. I believe in trust in a relationship above all else. I believe that if you don’t have the intentions- don’t make the promise. I believe in sex.. . .